What to Do if You're Losing His Attention?

Hi Ladies!

If you're finding yourself
almost desperately trying to get the attention of
a man you're already deep into a relationship
with, or a new man who you just KNOW likes you,
you may be - instinctively - doing all the WRONG
things.

And it's not your fault. We women have been taught
to treasure men so much, to consider them to be
such prizes, that no matter what we do, or how
"cool" we try to be, our emotions get caught up
when we're around a man we like.

Here's a letter sent to me from Ms. Rori Raye. about her story when she got her man's
attention back and brought him closer to her.



Have you ever felt like everything would be
"okay" in your relationship if you could just
really "get" his attention?

But you find yourself struggling with yourself
about what to do and how to behave?

Whether to run to meet him when he comes home
or just say "Hi," and "How's your day?"

Whether to ignore him or invite him out?

Call him or forget about him?

Turn to him in bed and try to get something
started again, or stay up sleepless?

Were you start to feel like nothing you do is
ever going to get you what you want, whether it's
a new man you've just seen or the man you're with
right now who's been taking you for granted?

And it feels like it's just always going to be
the same, and it's just too much hard work?

I know how frustrating and painful that is.

When Rori was "between" men, and she either had her
eye on a man, or there was no man in sight, she felt
such a sense of competition with other women it
made her feel sick on her stomach.

She always feel so "on edge," like she was always
in a kind of "store window display" if a man
showed up. Like she had to preen and be cute and
clever to get his interest.

And if there were lots of men, it was like
being in a candy store with closed counters for her.

She felt like she had to "go get" the men. Almost
hunt them down - knock on the closed glass cases
they were behind - in order to try to make
contact with her.

And yeah! She hated the results.

She often worked so hard at it that she
successfully went home with a man, or got a date
with a man - sometimes even a “short-term
relationship”.

It never even occurred to her that there was
another way to do it.

Until she met her husband, and she was in a mental
place she’d never been before, where she'd stopped
working so hard.

Her husband approached Rori, and he wasn't a
loser.

Instead of jumping at the opportunity, or
falling into her pit of anger and despair from all
her bitter past "relationships" that never worked out, she
just Leaned Back and let her man run the show and row
the boat.

Rori said, “And he never once let me down. Until we were married.”

Then, a new kind of need and desperation got
a hold of her.

After a year and a half of their marriage, her man pulled
away.

And there she was, stuck.

It wasn't like another one of those Imaginary
Relationships where his man would walk away after 2 months.

“We were MARRIED.

He was a good man, and he wasn't going
anywhere.” Rori exclaimed.

And yet, all she could see ahead of her was this
empty, cold, angry life - not at all the romantic
dream she'd expected when she married him.

Self-esteem is the key to getting love from a
man. If you don't feel good about yourself, you'll
almost automatically be attracted to and attract a
man who doesn't feel good about himself, either -
and so he will be incapable of loving YOU.

No matter how much you do or how sweet and sexy
you are, and how many things you do and say the
"right way" you will never change your
relationship until you start to change the way you
feel about yourself.

And it's actually EASY! And FAST, too.

With the help of this Toolkit. to raise your self-esteem and get
you believing the truth - which is that you are
FABULOUS, and you CAN have EVERYTHING you want.

The Toolkit is all about raising your self-esteem
- from the inside out, and from the outside in,
too - by using words and body language with men
that will HELP you raise your self-esteem instead
of beating it up.